When I was growing up we made love to women. We did it in our songs and we did it in real life.
Now I am listening to the radio and I hear somebody singing: “Tonight I’m F ing you!! Wooooo! Ohhh! Ohh! Tonight I’m F ing you! yeeeeeeee!! Heeeeee!”
I am used to love songs like “When a man loves a woman.”
“Killing me softly with his love.” “I will always love you” and “Fly me to the moon.”
Now songs are asking us to pull out the chain saw, wrenches and a blender and F somebody tonight. Get that bitch and handle her. That is too raw for me.
There were no males in my house while growing up. I was always taught to treat women with respect and to handle them with care. That carried over to my dating where I loved to do things with slow passion. I wanted to savor every moment and I wanted the woman to enjoy herself.
It aways seemed to work. I’d run into a woman who wanted me to grab her ears and go at it. I tried to make it work but for the most part I like gentle and passion. However, whatever works for you go for it.
One of the most romantic weekends I had was in California. I dated this woman who lived out there and we met in San Francisco. She flew in from her home and I flew in from Detroit. We met for lunch and went to her room. She put soft decorations on the wall, the celing and the room was filled with candles and flowers. It just felt right. It was soft and romantic and we enjoyed our weekend.
So when you are with your man or woman, what is your choice?
Do you want somebody to F you tonight? Or do you want them to “Love me Tender?”